It depends on what you are doing on 70cm.
If it's SSB using a high gain yagi etc. and you are chasing DX then there is no point in throwing away power, and receive signal, so hardline, or Ecoflex 10, would be the choice.
For non critical use then RG213 would do.
You just need to make sure it is genuine, full spec, RG213 or UR67 as there has been a lot of sub-standard co-ax on the market since CB became popular.
The type of relay depends on how much power you are running.
RelayAlso available with N connectors and suitable for mid power levels.
This is obviously new but you should find something similar second hand or surplus.
Toyo Tsusho, Radiall and Dow Key are all good brands.
Cheers
Tony